Take all of the gratitude, and find a way to make a difference
So what will you do this year to express your thankfulness not only on Thanksgiving Day but all year around?
Yes, it’s October 10 this year when Canadians officially mark Thanksgiving Day but my question is what does it mean to you? Over the last three years many people have fallen prey to complaining and clamouring about this or even getting into spats with long-time friends and family members that seem to now be at an impasse. Meaning relationships are on hold or simply say hi in passing. Very tough to be truly thankful when attitudes and heart conditions like that prevail.
“And now abideth faith, hope, charity (love), these three; but the greatest of these is charity (love).”
I scouted Google for various thoughts on being thankful. “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more.”
“Thanksgiving is a time of togetherness and gratitude.”
“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all the others.”
“If a fellow isn’t thankful for what he’s got, he isn’t likely to be thankful for what he’s going to get.”
I came across a list of alternative ways to spend Thanksgiving that will embrace the true spirit of the holiday. Also, to help take the focus off the bad and unthankful feelings you may harbour in your mind and heart. When I write these columns, especially some that reach deep down into my inner being, I deal with them first and then write them for others to read.
Take a look at some of the best ways to give thanks on Thanksgiving:
1) Volunteer to help make the holiday brighter for someone less fortunate. As I told someone recently the two highest callings for me are to officiate at weddings and funerals. That also includes singing in quartets and groups at these functions of course mostly funerals. (Umpiring fastball games a close second lol.)
Years ago, I was laying on our couch in Altona and this man’s face kept flashing through my mind. Finally, I yielded to my conscience and drove down to see him in the local personal care home. Yes, he needed my visit but blessed the preverbal socks right off me. Do something for someone else where you don’t expect anything in return.
2) Extend an invitation to someone who would welcome the company.
3) Make an extra meal to share this Thanksgiving season.
4) Make a donation.
5) Visit a nursing home or hospital.
6) Share your favourite memories.
7) Help guests express their thankfulness.
8) Take all of the gratitude, and find a way to make a difference.
Let me comment on the last two. Instead of focusing on yourself and allowing the other person to focus on their trouble and worries, ask them what are you thankful for. Help people express their thankfulness.
Take all of the gratitude, and find a way to make a difference. Now you may ask what is Harry getting at now? I wasn’t sure when writing this but it sure came to mind quickly. At first, before listing those things to be thankful for, you may not want to make any difference to anyone especially yourself. Ok. Now take all that bottled thankfulness and find a way to make a difference. You’ll be glad you did.•